For professionals · Private · Seven days a week
Burnout Therapy for High Achievers
You don’t have to burn out to earn rest.
You run the meeting, the ward, the case, the call. TEO Counselling provides private, virtual burnout therapy for professionals — evenings and weekends, in four languages. Bring the version of you that nobody at work gets to see.
Executive burnout has many job titles
You might be the physician charting at midnight. The lawyer who billed eleven hours and still answered email at dinner. The executive who carries the numbers — and every person attached to them. The founder who can’t tell where the company ends and they begin. The first responder who has seen what most people never will.
Different seats, same pattern: you hold a lot, for a long time, and nobody checks on the holder. This page is for professionals who pay privately and keep their circle small. One thing to know before you read on: ambition is welcome here. You don’t have to want less from your career. You just can’t keep paying for it with yourself.
Work stress is a load. Burnout is the ground giving way.
Work stress is carrying a heavy pack. It’s hard, but the weight lifts when the deadline passes. Burnout is different. Burnout is when the ground under the pack starts to give way. The project ends and nothing lifts.
It usually shows up in three ways: exhaustion that sleep doesn’t touch, a growing distance from work you used to care about, and a quiet slide in performance at things you’re good at. None of this means you’re weak. It means you’ve been running a system past its limits, and the system is sending a bill. Therapy is where we read that bill line by line — and look at how the spending happened.
High-functioning anxiety: the cost of looking composed
You’ve mastered looking composed. That’s part of the problem. The calmer you look, the less anyone asks. So nobody asks. High-functioning anxiety often hides this way: the to-do list gets done, the emails get answered, the standards stay high — while the inside runs hot.
Here’s the reframe. Coming to therapy is not breaking character. It’s the same skill that built your career: noticing a problem early and putting a professional on it. You review your finances. You review your contracts. This is a review of the operator.
What is burnout?
Burnout is a state of deep exhaustion — physical, mental, and emotional — that builds when chronic workplace stress goes unmanaged for a long time. The World Health Organization classifies it as an occupational phenomenon, not a medical condition, and describes it through three features: energy depletion, growing mental distance or cynicism toward the job, and a slide in how effective you feel at work.
Two things in that definition matter for therapy. First, burnout is chronic: one brutal quarter does not produce it, but the tenth one can. Second, “unmanaged” does not mean you failed to cope — most of the professionals who sit down with us have been coping impressively for years. It means the load and the recovery never balanced, and no amount of personal grit changes that arithmetic. Burnout counselling starts by mapping where the imbalance actually lives: the role, the rules you work under, and the rules you carry with you.
And while the word points at workplaces, the pattern is not limited to paid work. Caregiver burnout — the parent of a child with complex needs, the adult managing a parent’s decline while holding a career — follows the same arc and deserves the same attention.
Is burnout the same as depression?
No. Burnout and depression can look similar from the outside, but burnout is anchored to a specific role or workload, while depression tends to reach into every part of life — including the parts that have nothing to do with work.
A rough test is distance. Real distance from the stressor — a genuine holiday, a leave, a long weekend with the phone actually off — tends to touch burnout at least a little. Depression usually travels with you: the flatness is there on the beach too, and the things you loved outside work have also gone grey. The two can overlap, and burnout that runs long enough can sit alongside depression in the same person, which is one reason it deserves more than a self-diagnosis from a listicle.
Nothing on this page is a diagnosis, and counsellors and psychotherapists do not diagnose. If low mood, hopelessness, or the loss of pleasure has spread well beyond work, bring that to your physician — therapy can run alongside medical care rather than instead of it. And if any of it has tipped into thoughts of ending your life, do not route that through a booking page: call or text 9-8-8 now.
The jobs that quietly collect a toll
Some workplace stress is loud — layoffs, restructures, a manager everyone warns you about. The kind that produces burnout is usually quieter: an on-call rotation that never truly ends, targets that reset the moment you hit them, emotional labour nobody logs. Nurse burnout and physician burnout have their own vocabularies for a reason; healthcare workers spend their shifts absorbing other people’s worst moments, then charting them. Teachers, social workers, and frontline support staff carry a version of the same load.
One specific piece of it has its own name: compassion fatigue — the gradual wearing-down of the capacity to care that comes from caring professionally, at volume, for a long time. It is not a character flaw, and it is not the end of your empathy. It is a signal about dosage.
First responders, and other special cases
For police, fire, paramedics, dispatchers, and emergency-department staff, burnout rarely arrives alone — it comes braided with what the job required you to witness. That work has its own page here: first responder therapy, where EMDR and the culture of the work get proper attention.
Two other patterns are worth naming. ADHD burnout: the boom-and-bust cycle of masking, over-committing, and crashing that many adults with ADHD describe. Counselling works with the overwhelm and the self-criticism; diagnosis stays with your physician. And the high performer whose burnout hides inside a promotion — because the usual reward for surviving an unsustainable job is a bigger one.
How burnout counselling works here
We start with your goals, not a script. Then we match the approach to the job. CBT looks at the thinking habits that keep the grind running — rules like “rest must be earned.” IFS works with your inner parts: the driver, the critic, and the one who is tired of both. EMDR works with how the brain stores the hardest moments, which matters for many first responders and physicians.
Sessions are direct and practical. We set a focus, we work, we review what’s changing. Sessions are with one of three clinicians. Mohamad Shabib holds MACP, CCC and is a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), CRPO — Ontario; Alison Shaji is a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with the BCACC; Rola Shbib is a Registered Social Worker (RSW) with the OCSWSSW. Bring your questions to the free consultation — including questions about approach.
Discretion, by design
There is no waiting room, because there is no walking in. Sessions are virtual — you join from any room with a door that closes. Book evenings or weekends, so therapy never has to appear on a work calendar.
We don’t share information with your employer. We don’t contact workplaces, and we don’t need anyone’s approval for you to be here. What you say in session stays in session, within the narrow limits the law sets — and we’ll explain those limits plainly before you share a word. Discretion here isn’t a favour. It’s the design.
What does recovery from burnout look like?
Recovery from burnout is usually gradual, and it rarely comes from rest alone — the pattern that produced the exhaustion has to change too, or the same job simply refills the same hole.
In practice the work tends to move through a few territories, in whatever order fits you. Stabilising the basics: sleep, some genuine form of stopping, a first honest look at the calendar. Renegotiating the rules — the internal ones, like “rest must be earned” or “if I don’t do it, it fails,” and sometimes the external ones, which can mean the workload conversation you have been postponing. And rebuilding a self that is not only the role: burnout narrows identity until the job is the last thing left standing, and widening that back out is real clinical work, not a hobby suggestion.
What we will not do is promise a timeline. How long this takes depends on how long the pattern ran, how much of it your workplace will let you change, and what the exhaustion has been keeping you too tired to notice. Your clinician should be able to give you a realistic read after the first few sessions — and should be willing to revisit it, out loud, as the work goes on.
Maintenance for the person running all of it
You already spend real money maintaining what you run — the dues, the insurance, the certifications, the car. This is maintenance for the person running all of it. One hour, at a time you choose, with no commute attached.
Session details
Virtual-only, for clients in British Columbia, Ontario, Alberta, Saskatchewan, Manitoba, and Newfoundland & Labrador.
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